How To Use Your Active Rain Blog To Get Listings!
There are many ways in which agents use their Active Rain blogs for buyers, like in relocation packages and email alerts. Since our focus is on getting listings and Bob Stewart has this contest going on about how we share our Active Rain blog to build existing relationships I thought that I would share how we incorporate our Active Rain blog on a listing presentation over the phone or in person.
We also use our Active Rain blog information with our existing sellers.
Here is the play by play:
1. We take all of our short sale information posts and post them on our website under its' own URL: short-sales-Florida.com. Whenever a person, attorney, prospect, neighbor, buyers agents, whomever has a question about short sales we send them a link to our page that contains all our Active Rain short sale posts all in one place so they don't have to figure out how to use, 'search' or 'tags'. This way they can read at their leisure, book mark the page of even print out the articles to read later on. This is probably our most successful and effective marketing strategy in using our Active Rain blog.
2. Go Google Me! You see, every agent has some sort of website, most are buried in the google sand box never having been indexed so that gives us a huge advantage. We have Active Rain screen shots that we use in our slide show presentation showing us as the point leader for Florida and a slide that shows the most subscribed to blogs on Active Rain. Since we are in the top 4- that is something we can use in our listing tool box! Now I know a lot of people will say so what about the points. Well, I am here to tell you that our sellers know it is a big deal because they read our blog. Not only that, people who don't know us will say to us: I don't know what those points mean but they must be important to be up there like that. Why would I want to market that we are one of the most popular blogs out of 160,000 agents plus? More exposure for their listings of course! Success breeds success.
3. On existing listings we take screen shots of our Active Rain statistics page along with our Clustermap screen shot to show them how many views their listing got from being posted on Active Rain. I love this feature because it is the proof in the pudding. Like Nestor says, "My favorite license plate is the Missouri, show me state." Show me what is going on with my listing! The sellers love this. We also use this same feature for listing prospects. We will take one of the existing listings and then show this same information to let them know what Nestor and Katerina can do for their property.
4. Problem short sales: We take a post we write such as Freddie Mac- Does Anyone There Know How To Read- and post it, then ask for reblogs, then take the post along with all the comments and send it to all our Senators and Congressmen, media outlets, etc, to get some action. You can makes these types of posts very viral if they contain a good cause. People like to help with causes. The seller was in tears as she read each of the comments because it meant so much to her that there was support for her.
5. Spreading the word: You know I write a lot of posts from my heart, political, natural health, homeschool, etc. We have our 'subscribe by email' set up through feedburner. You do not need to be an AR member to subscribe to our blog this way. Many of our local moms, families, consumers and agents who are not members of AR follow our blog. Like kind attracts like kind. So we have a lot of readers who follow our blog not because of real estate but because of what we believe and that in turn, turns into referrals from those who know, like and trust us. We have bookmarks and business cards that are just about our Active Rain blog. We pass those out everywhere we go.
6. Surprise: I am working on some fantastic marketing tools to highlight our Active Rain blog and more. Since I got my new mac I have discovered the endless marketing possibilities with the tools that mac has to offer. Already I have cut my time by one third in how long it takes to put a post together now. As I master these tools- I will share them with you but also wait til you see the stuff I am cooking up! Subscribe to our blog so you don't miss out.
If you are using Active Rain as your blogging platform you should look into ways in which to promote your blog to your existing data base, your existing clients and prospects in your community and on line. You can increase your readership, your email subscribers and develop the relationships that will lead you to listings and closed sales as well as making some great contacts along the way.
How To Use Your Active Rain Blog To Get Listings! by Coach Katerina Gasset is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 3.0 United States License
How To Use Your Active Rain Blog To Get Listings!
Realtors: How has your life changed because of this Market?

How has your job changed in the past couple of years? My business card says Realtor Broker, but my job entails so much more nowadays: I am a social worker, general contractor, psychologist, loss mitigator, asset preservation specialist, credit counselor, short sale specialist, reo specialist, foreclosure counselor. My days are spent solving problems. That’s really what should be written on my card:
Mirela Monte, Problem Solver
Do I sell Real Estate anymore? Yeah, and lots of it, but the quality of my life has deteriorated immensely. I work 80 hour weeks, not for the money, but because I have too many balls up in the air. Real Estate is not for sissies! It is a full time, all consuming endeavor, more so now than ever before.
“God bless you if this is how you have to deal with more deals this year. If so, you are in need of a vacation.”
These were the words of a builder on a project I am handling on one of my Bank Owned properties, a spec taken back by the bank right before it was completed. We’ve had so many obstacles on that project that what started as the 100 yard dash has turned into the Boston Marathon - only at the ‘dash’ tempo!!! In the past year and a half, I’ve sold that house seven times and I’m yet to close on it. I could write a book about it and I just might, however the project in question will be a mere chapter, since I also have several others with various sized problems.

As I close them all, I get even more business. Such and such person hears about my feat and comes to me to solve their problem. I’m not complaining, it’s good to have business these days; I just want to know if the lifestyle I’m having right now is sustainable for long periods of time. Am I paying the price for solving other people’s problems with my own life, or is this extraordinarily tenuous period going to propel my career into the stratosphere?
How many of you have changed gears and are now bearing down under a mountain of stress? The way I figure it, I’d rather carry the stress, rather than the mountain of bills… What do you think?
How has your life changed because of this Market?
Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Real Estate Connection Join The Optimist Group!
Signs You've Had Too Much Coffee...
You've worn the finish off your coffee table.
All your kids are named Joe.
Chuck Yeager thinks you need to calm down.
Instant coffee takes too long.
Juan Valdez named his donkey after you.
People can test their batteries in your ears.
People get dizzy just watching you.
Starbucks owns the mortgage on your house.
The nurse needs a scientific calculator to take your pulse.
The only time you're standing still is during an earthquake.
The Taster's Choice couple wants to adopt you.
When someone asks 'how are you' you say, 'good to the last drop'.
You buy milk by the barrel.
You can jump-start your car without cables.
You can outlast the Energizer bunny.
You can take a picture of yourself from ten feet away without using the timer.
You can type sixty words per minute with your feet.
You can't even remember your second cup.
You channel surf faster without a remote.
You chew on other people's fingernails.
You don't even wait for the water to boil anymore.
You don't get mad, you get steamed.
You don't need a hammer to pound in nails.
You don't sweat, you percolate.
You don't tan, you roast.
You forget to unwrap candy bars before eating them.
You get a speeding ticket even when you're parked.
You go to AA meetings just for the free coffee.
You go to sleep just so you can wake up and smell the coffee.
You grind your coffee beans in your mouth.
You have a conniption over spilled milk.
You have a picture of your coffee mug on your coffee mug.
You have to watch videos in fast-forward.
You haven't blinked since the last lunar eclipse.
You help your dog chase its tail.
You introduce your spouse as your coffee mate.
You just completed another sweater and you don't know how to knit.
You lick your coffeepot clean.
You name your cats Cream and Sugar.
You short out motion detectors.
You ski uphill.
You sleep with your eyes open.
You soak your dentures in coffee overnight.
You speak perfect Arabic without ever taking a lesson.
You speed-walk in your sleep.
You spend every vacation visiting Maxwell House.
You think being called a drip is a compliment.
You think CPR stands for Coffee Provides Resuscitation.
You'd be willing to spend time in a Turkish prison.
Your first-aid kit contains two pints of coffee with an I.V. hookup.
Your coffee mug is insured by Lloyds of London.
Your eyes stay open when you sneeze.
Your life's goal is to amount to a hill of beans.
Your lips are permanently stuck in the sipping position.
Your nervous twitch registers on the Richter scale.
Your only source of nutrition comes from Sweet & Low.
Your taste buds are so numb; you could drink your lava lamp.
Your Thermos is on wheels.
You're so wired, you pick up AM radio.
You've built a miniature city out of little plastic stirrers.
You've worn out the handle on your favorite mug.
FORECLOSED WE STAND: How are States Taking Matters Into Their Own Hands & How is This Going to Affect America?
Foreclosures increased over 80% in 2008. The figures are no less scary in 2009:
The foreclosure rates in several states were up significantly lately: Arizona was up 36.1% for September. Florida was not far behind with a 29.67% increase, followed by: Texas 24.38%, Michigan 18.22% and California with a 15.57% increase. All 50 states saw an increase in foreclosures, but not all were as drastic. For example, the increase in Kansas was only 3.65%.
The major increases were driven mainly by changes in urban areas. In Arizona, the statewide foreclosure deluge was fostered by a massive 81.37% increase in Phoenix Foreclosures. Other cities with big increases included: Las Vegas, NV at 47.47%, Atlanta, GA at 39.96%, Chicago, IL at 36.27% and Houston, TX at 33.29 percent.
While the Federal Government is struggling with their impeded programs, states have started to take action to protect the fabric of our society.

I am proud to say that my very own South Carolina was the first state in the union to take action against Foreclosures judicially. In May the SC Supreme Court temporarily stopped thousands of pending foreclosure sales in order to give homeowners more time to take advantage of new federal programs to help them refinance mortgages. The injunction — which mortgage experts said appeared to be the nation's first court-ordered stop for an entire state — prevents judges in South Carolina from finalizing foreclosure sales on properties guaranteed by Freddie Mac, Fannie Mae or any other mortgage company that has signed on to a federal assistance program.
In April, the South Carolina legislature has introduced House Bil 3952, which, if adopted during the '09-'10 session, will provide for a 6 months Moratorium on Foreclosures in this state.

Diametrically opposed, Geographically and otherwise, California implemented its own Foreclosure Moratorium in June. Banks in California can no longer foreclose on a mortgage without either renegotiating the loan or giving the homeowner three months’ notice. There have been more than 365,000 foreclosures in California since 2007, with many more already scheduled.
“California is ground zero for foreclosures. We’re getting about 80 to 90,000 foreclosure filings every month. That’s one every 30 seconds, so until we start mitigating the number of foreclosures, our economic recovery is going to be hampered,” said Assemblyman Ted Lieu, the Torrance Democrat who authored the bill.
In Detroit, citizens are organizing a massive movement scheduled for November 7th, asking the state legislators and their Governor to impose a state-wide moratorium on Foreclosures and support Senate Bill 29, which provides for a 2 year moratorium on Foreclosures. The People’s call to action urges: Bail out the people—not the banks!
Meanwhile, Ohio’s legislators are in a heated debate over a 6-month Foreclosure Moratorium already approved by the House.
What we are seeing here is National Movement of MONUMENTAL PROPORTIONS. By taking a stand on this incredibly important issue – Foreclosures – we are seeing increased autonomy of the individual states. Add to the mix a general disgruntlement with our Federal Government and its BIG BUSINESS largess and what we have here is a precipitous movement towards the decentralization of power. Just my two cents’ worth.
The following two movies provide the most thourough information on the Foreclosure Crisis. The House of Cards made my skin crawl. Please watch it and let me know what you think of it. We need to be aware of how we've arrived at this juncture, this moment in history our children will talk about..
The Meltdown
The House of Cards
Here are a few other interesting sites to keep your finger on the pulse of this Foreclosure Crisis:
The Everything You Need Foreclosure Site - My gift to you
How to get your hands on some of that Obama Money for your Turf
Foreclosures 101 - Analyze Foreclosures by State, County and Zip Code
I am about to embark on my own journey to help those displaced by this crux. Please stay tuned to my blog roll, for I will soon ask for your help in a very important undertaking, one that will allow us Realtors a unique opportunity to expose the very human factor so visible to us agents, yet so overlooked by the media. There is an opportunity for us to take a stand and contribute to the solution.
Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Real Estate Foreclosure Connection
5 steps to protect yourself on Facebook
Facebook is the world's largest social network. Disregarding this, people share all kinds of information on Facebook without thinking about who's seeing it or what effect their comments and pictures might have on them in the future. One study revealed 30% of employers use Facebook to vet job applicants. Those goofy party pics could cost you more than your dignity! So what can you do to protect your privacy on Facebook? The site itself offers lots of privacy controls and security features. Here are five steps to take to activate them:
1. Create Friend Lists Make a Work list for business, an Acquaintances list, and a Family list for relatives and close friends. Click Friends on the Facebook homepage; click Friends under Lists, then Create New List, and type in your members.
2. Set Up Who Sees What on Your Profile Mouse over Settings on the Facebook homepage and click Privacy Settings. Click Profile Privacy. Beneath each section -- basic info, personal info, status, etc. -- specify who gets to see it. This is where Friend lists come in handy. Enter Only Friends to block out the rest of the world (like employers). Edit Custom Settings lets you block specific people or lists.
3. Restrict Access to Your Address and Phone Number As above, go from Settings to Privacy Settings to the Profile Privacy page. Click Contact Information tab at the top. Use the drop-down lists to determine who sees or doesn't see things like IM Screen Name, Mobile Phone, Other Phone, Current Address, Website, or Email.
4. Set Up Who Can Find You on a Facebook Search This stops all those friend requests from old buddies. Click on Settings, then Search, which takes you to Search Privacy, where you can specify who can find you. Under Search Visibility you can choose Everyone, My Networks and Friends, Friends of Friends, or My Networks and Friends of Friends. To keep strangers from finding you, choose Only Friends. You can also specify what info displays in your search result...profile picture, friend list, etc.
5. Block Personal Info from Unknown Applications Without knowing it, you could be sharing personal information with various Facebook applications and their developers. To block them, mouse over Settings, choose Privacy Settings, click Applications, then click the Settings tab next to the Overview tab. Check and uncheck boxes next to your personal info -- picture, education, religious views, etc. This determines what your friends' applications can see about you.
This is not a complete guide to privacy and security on Facebook. But these five steps will start to create a more private and secure environment for yourself and your family on this huge social network. Better to be safe than sorry!
Have a great week!
Rob
Mortgage Banker
www.RobertRaufHomeLoans.com or my blog: http://activerain.com/blogs/rrauf
(732)223-1630 x102
Since 1987 I have been helping my clients fulfill their dream of home ownership!
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Will The Bank Accept Your Lousy Offer?
Will the bank accept your lousy offer? Let’s re-iterate the facts:
1. This is a Buyers’ Market.
2. There are plenty of Distressed Properties to choose from.
3. A qualified Buyer (one who is buying in cash OR is pre-approved for a loan) is worth his weight in gold, or brick, sort of speak… You know what I mean...
4. Banks are not in the business of owning homes.
5. The longer a vacant home stays on the market, the more it deteriorates.
6. Banks are not in the business of owning homes. Hey, wait a minute, I’ve said that already! Never mind, it’s worth repeating the point; it's an important one!

I’ve encountered some timid Buyers who are reluctant to make substantially lower offers. I urge them to go ahead and insult the Bank anyway. If they don’t get their price, they can always come back and offer more, or make another offer on a different bank owned home. As long as you don’t get emotionally invested, you’ll eventually be able to garner yourself a great deal.
In order to make my point and offer some concrete evidence, I am submitting this list of Myrtle Beach Bank owned Homes. The pricing activity is listed in chronological order for each one of these Foreclosures. Some have had contracts on them which never came to fruition and back on the market they went. All of these listings are still available and all of them are bank owned properties in the Myrtle Beach area.
Take the first property for example. As a fresh Waterway Foreclosure, it was initially offered for sale in May ’08 for $1,390,000. A year and a half and three price reductions later, it got dropped down to $795,000 (a 43% price decrease). It will probably sell for around the same price as another Waterway Foreclosure located right down the street, which closed recently in the $600K range.
After studying these, you too will be convinced that your lousy offer on a Bank owned property might actually get you the home of your dreams for pennies on the dollar. At least in Myrtle Beach it will!
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Hotsheet Date |
Entry Type |
Price |
Comment |
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MLS# 807701 - 125 AVENUE OF THE PALMS |
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5/6/2008 11:42 |
Price Change |
$1,390,000 |
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7/16/2008 12:47 |
Price Change |
$1,250,000 |
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2/23/2009 10:42 |
Price Change |
$995,000 |
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10/9/2009 12:54 |
Price Change |
$795,000 |
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MLS# 823031 - 7530 Maple Swamp Rd
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9/24/2008 11:25 |
New Listing |
$119,900 |
NEW LISTING |
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12/3/2008 9:11 |
Price Change |
$112,900 |
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1/8/2009 15:33 |
Price Change |
$99,900 |
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3/6/2009 7:43 |
Price Change |
$89,000 |
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3/13/2009 10:19 |
Price Change |
$89,900 |
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4/28/2009 12:41 |
Price Change |
$84,900 |
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6/29/2009 16:36 |
Price Change |
$79,900 |
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8/5/2009 14:14 |
Price Change |
$34,900 |
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8/7/2009 15:47 |
Price Change |
$74,900 |
This is a correction. |
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9/22/2009 11:37 |
Price Change |
$65,900 |
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MLS# 903997 - 23 Windy Ln |
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2/20/2009 7:48 |
New Listing |
$607,900 |
NEW LISTING |
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3/13/2009 7:48 |
Price Change |
$595,900 |
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4/3/2009 9:15 |
Price Change |
$580,900 |
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4/27/2009 7:23 |
Price Change |
$566,900 |
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5/18/2009 7:28 |
Price Change |
$522,900 |
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6/24/2009 7:24 |
Price Change |
$506,900 |
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7/15/2009 9:17 |
Price Change |
$427,900 |
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8/6/2009 7:28 |
Price Change |
$406,900 |
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8/10/2009 13:44 |
Misc. Change |
$406,900 |
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10/2/2009 11:54 |
Price Change |
$380,900 |
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10/2/2009 11:54 |
Misc. Change |
$380,900 |
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10/23/2009 7:20 |
Price Change |
$355,900 |
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MLS# 910198 - 8409 Ole Moore DR |
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5/18/2009 11:49 |
New Listing |
$69,000 |
NEW LISTING |
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5/21/2009 14:01 |
Price Change |
$66,900 |
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6/4/2009 10:08 |
Price Change |
$63,900 |
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6/18/2009 9:59 |
Price Change |
$59,900 |
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7/2/2009 9:13 |
Price Change |
$56,900 |
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7/16/2009 15:30 |
Price Change |
$54,900 |
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7/30/2009 10:38 |
Price Change |
$51,900 |
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8/13/2009 10:57 |
Price Change |
$49,900 |
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8/27/2009 13:36 |
Price Change |
$46,900 |
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9/9/2009 14:42 |
Price Change |
$39,000 |
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10/7/2009 13:08 |
Price Change |
$29,900 |
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10/22/2009 12:09 |
Price Change |
$26,900 |
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MLS# 910942 - 6001 S Kings Hwy |
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5/28/2009 15:43 |
New Listing |
$244,900 |
NEW LISTING |
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6/23/2009 9:35 |
Price Change |
$229,900 |
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7/23/2009 14:21 |
Price Change |
$214,900 |
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8/18/2009 20:56 |
Price Change |
$199,900 |
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9/16/2009 10:29 |
Price Change |
$182,900 |
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10/13/2009 11:51 |
Price Change |
$174,900 |
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MLS# 911984 - 3266 Sleepy Hollow |
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6/15/2009 10:38 |
New Listing |
$90,000 |
NEW LISTING |
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7/17/2009 14:53 |
Price Change |
$59,900 |
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8/17/2009 0:07 |
Status to Expired |
$59,900 |
Auto Expired By Nightly Processing |
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8/18/2009 14:01 |
Price Change |
$49,900 |
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8/18/2009 14:09 |
Status to Active |
$49,900 |
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10/2/2009 16:41 |
Price Change |
$39,900 |
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MLS# 910635 - 6 Smith Blvd |
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5/22/2009 18:16 |
New Listing |
$167,900 |
NEW LISTING |
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6/3/2009 11:01 |
Price Change |
$149,900 |
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6/29/2009 20:32 |
Price Change |
$129,900 |
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7/24/2009 12:58 |
Status to Under Contract |
$129,900 |
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7/31/2009 13:22 |
Status to Active |
$129,900 |
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8/5/2009 9:50 |
Price Change |
$122,900 |
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8/14/2009 8:42 |
Misc. Change |
$122,900 |
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10/22/2009 7:28 |
Price Change |
$114,900 |
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10/22/2009 7:28 |
Misc. Change |
$114,900 |
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MLS# 912323 - 55 PINEBURY DRIVE |
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6/18/2009 13:51 |
New Listing |
$564,900 |
NEW LISTING |
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10/20/2009 13:46 |
Price Change |
$349,900 |
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MLS# 912562 - 250 Old Wilson Road |
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6/22/2009 19:54 |
New Listing |
$150,000 |
NEW LISTING |
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6/23/2009 7:32 |
Price Change |
$99,000 |
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6/23/2009 11:29 |
Price Change |
$109,900 |
$109,900 Modular Home has a possible second lot that goes with it. |
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8/31/2009 11:04 |
Price Change |
$94,900 |
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10/8/2009 14:53 |
Price Change |
$92,000 |
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MLS# 910942 - 6001 S Kings Hwy |
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5/28/2009 15:43 |
New Listing |
$244,900 |
NEW LISTING |
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6/23/2009 9:35 |
Price Change |
$229,900 |
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7/23/2009 14:21 |
Price Change |
$214,900 |
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8/18/2009 20:56 |
Price Change |
$199,900 |
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9/16/2009 10:29 |
Price Change |
$182,900 |
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10/13/2009 11:51 |
Price Change |
$174,900 |
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Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Bank Owned Homes Connection Myrtle Beach REO’s To Go!
15 FREE Sites to Post Your Open Houses!
Not advertising your open house is just like having a party and not inviting anyone. Why bother? Pull out a calendar and SCHEDULE your open houses. PLAN for them. And, most important of all, ADVERTISE them! Make sure when you advertise, you also add directions that are easy to follow - (not everyone has a GPS).
Advertise a drawing for a free Flip video camera. You can find them on Amazon now for about $50. After 4 or so open houses, draw a name and make a big deal announcing the winner - advertise that too. Make sure to order a custom skin for the Flip camera with your branding on it (skinit.com) so everyone knows where it came from! I've attached a picture of Dakno's custom skin.
For the list of free sites to advertise your open houses, read the entire post here.
Have a great party!
Tina in Virginia
SHORT SALES... Looking at the Bright Side...
I've been doing a lot of Short Sales for the past couple of years. I've done short sales on and off through the years, before the term "short sale" had even been coined. We used to call it "upside down mortgage". It was an infrequent occurrence. I was good at it because I really wanted to help my clients move out of their financial quagmire, so I was very persistent with the bank. There was no "Loss Mitigation" at that time, or at least I wasn't aware of any such term.
My, how things have changed in the past few years! Out of 15 transactions waiting to close within my agency, only three are normal transactions; the rest are all short sales and REO's.
Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Short Sale Specialist *(Unfortunately!)
As much as I bemoan the length of time and the hoops I go through to do short sales transactions, I am taking this opportunity to say, "THANK GOODNESS FOR SHORT SALES!"
Why?
...Because it's a way to guide our sellers who have found themselves in dire situations and may not know their options.
...Because it's a way for distressed property owners to avoid foreclosure or bankruptcy, and thus salvage their credit
...Because more homes are within reach for home buyers who have little money but have a lot of time and patience to wait
out the lengthy short sale process
...Because while there is a frenzy for buying foreclosure where people compete in multiple offer situations for AS IS purchases, there is less competition for short sales where there is room for negotiation
...Because short sales offer opportunities not just for the buyers looking for a good deal, or sellers hoping for debt forgiveness, but also for realtors who truly want to help their clients and who are in it for the long haul. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. Right?
...Because we've learned how to do another type of sale. And every key learning is a new marketable skill.
What do we have to lose? It takes time, sure....but eventually, it will bear fruit. The more we sow, the more we reap.
Perhaps this is a good time to add that ALL of my current escrows are with short sale buyers and sellers!
7 Steps To Fiscal Discipline:
My father used to caution us kids against consumerism: “Look around you; most people never have enough money. When they make two dollars, they spend four. Me and your mom, when we make two dollars we spend 10 cents.”
I must admit that daddy’s teachings went against what I learnt in school. Our society encourages “spending other people’s money” – “leverage”, they call it.
Here we are in 2009, scratching our heads. What happened? Is this “leverage” thing not all it’s cracked up to be? Should we have been more prudent? Maybe it’s time to go back to basics. In that vein, I propose establishing some fiscally healthy habits:

1. With all due respect, Daddy, I can’t make two dollars and spend only 10 cents. I do think that I can get by on about 50 cents though. Instead of Gucci and Cartier, I opt for a no name brand. Instead of eating out, I cook in; it’s healthier anyway and a lot less expensive. I buy it in bulk at Costco and shop at the Farmers’ Market. I get good quality at discount prices, because I pay attention…
2. I know I can afford a much larger and fancier home than this, but why spend the money on it? Instead, I’d rather use that money and buy some other homes, rent them out and let them pay for themselves.
3. If I don’t have 20% to put down on a home, I’ll wait until I do. I don’t like paying PMI, nor do I like other people taking care of my property taxes and insurance (escrows). When I buy a home I make sure I have enough money to pay all expenses for at least six months, just in case I have a hard time renting it. Better safe than sorry.
4. When I volunteered at the shelter I met several people who had lost everything because they didn’t have health insurance. I don’t want that to happen to my family, so I pay my premium every month automatically by direct draft.
5. I don’t want to be late with my mortgages, so my properties all get paid automatically as well. Just for good measure, I have it set up to draw more principal than required, so I can pay them off faster. It is amazing how much of a difference it has made.
6. Some of the money left over after my 50 cents allowance go to paying taxes with regularity. Some of it goes to my retirement accounts; I’m not going to be 29 forever, you know… The rest gets saved in order to buy more Real Estate. I believe in what I sell and I set a good example. How can I advise other investors, if I don’t invest myself?
7. Setting limits and staying within my means is not easy. I make choices every day. I want both shoes? Too bad! I’ll buy the pair I like and need the most and it better be priced in the two digits; no Gucci there either.. I’d love to fly first class. Too bad, it’s not in the budget! I’m just lucky to be able to travel, and I remind myself of that fact. Fancy hairdressers, manicures, spa treatments? Yeah, that would be nice, but I never have the time for it anyway. I don’t smoke or have any other unhealthy habits, I eat clean and I exercise. No fancy spa or doctor treatments can give me what those good habits can…
Learning Fiscal Discipline is a process, but one well worth the prize: independence from worry. “Taming your money” will give you peace of mind and will allow you to make better choices. I think Daddy would be proud…
I’m sure I may have missed some fine points. If so, please bring them to our attention! I would love to hear from you about the healthy fiscal habits you have developed!
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LOL FRIDAY - How To Spy on Your Kids by Using The Social Media
Isn't technology great? Now you can keep tabs on your kids' every move via the social media. Here are two wonderful videos providing great tutorials on how to employ Twitter and Facebook to monitor your grown child’s every move. Neurotic moms never had it so good!
Facebook, Twitter Revolutionizing How Parents Stalk Their College-Aged Kids
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Angel Tree Children Ministry

When mom and dad are in prison, what happens to the children?
Angel Tree Ministry is a non profit organization trying to infuse hope where there is none. They take these kids camping, teach them valuable skills and cater to their spiritual and emotional well being.
Here is a message from Rev. Donna Phelps and her husband Garry:
Yes! It's that time of year again and right now we have 568 kids waiting to see if they will be remembered as one of the Angel Tree Children Ministry.
When Mom or Dad is in prison, it's the innocent children who do hard time. But you can let them know they aren't forgotten. You can give the child of a prisoner the joy of Christmas this year. Each gift is given as though it is from the incarcerated parent. In addition, every child also receives an age-appropriate presentation of the Gospel message--the true meaning of Christmas. And when Christmas is over, you'll enjoy opportunities to continue to minister to these families year-round.
We ask you to please invite them to your church & pray for these needy families. Right now we need volunteers to: buy and wrap gifts, to purchase gift cards of any kind, donations of stockings, candies, socks, gloves, coloring books, DVD's, etc...and monetary donations to sponsor Angel Tree events. We ask you to please pray about this tremendous need, and remember: what if it were your child? Please try and see them through the eyes of Jesus. To find out how wonderful it feels to "welcome the children" in Jesus’ name, just call us at 910-842-9418.
At present there are over 32,000 children of prisoners across North & South Carolina. Let's not let any be left out. We want to thank these individuals in advance for their hearts of compassion and for adopting children.
Building HOPE Ministries, P.O. Box 1331, Shallotte, NC 28459
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Wordless Wednesday - Views of the Waterway in Little River, SC
Life is easy in Little River, SC. With warm and sunny days, 5 minutes to the Beach and lovely views of the Waterway, who wouldn't want to live here?
This is where you'll find that laid back lifestyle, away from all the hustle and bustle of the Big City. Lazy afternoons spent fishing or just rocking on your front porch sipping some cold sweet tea. Ahh, this is living.
Ya'll come down soon, ya hear?
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They Wear Hats, Berets, Scarves and… Body Hair?!?!
Picture this: a sunny afternoon at the Zoo. The young couple holding hands decides to take a break from it all and sit down on a bench under the trees. She lays her head on his lap and stretches her arms, revealing…
“What? What’s THAT?” he exclaims pointing to her armpits.
“What do you mean”, she innocently asks, fluttering her eyes.
“That, that”, he maintains, vehemently pointing to her armpits.
“You mean this”, she says touching the hair under her arm.
“Yes, THAT! You have hair under your arms” he says incredulously.
“Of course I do. Don’t you?”
That was many years ago. The girl was European and the date was her first boyfriend, an American boy. That’s how she learnt that in America girls are not supposed to grow hair under their armpits. …Or on their legs… or on their… never mind!
For those of you who travel the World, you have some stories to tell, I’m sure - so please share them with us! Here are my observations: they wax in Spain, but the rest of Europe typically embraces hair under the armpits for both genders. Especially in Germany and France, where women are tres chic, dressed in the latest fashions. They wear hats, berets, scarves and… body hair?!?!
Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection
Thinking about getting a Divorce? Not in this Market!

2009 may go down as the year with the least divorce filings in recent history.
Nationwide, the number of divorce filings is down substantially. When the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers polled its 1,600 members, nearly 40 percent said that filings were down by 40 percent. "There is a lot of fear, so people are staying put," says Gary Nickelson, president of the Academy. "People look at their assets and their liquidity, and they realize they don't have any."
During these hard times many couples are opting to postpone getting divorced for obvious economic reasons. In the past, the proceeds from the sale of the marital home was a solution to many post-divorce cash flow issues, including down payments for new homes, getting a new car and paying the lawyers and experts in a case.
With the decline in property values, many people are facing situations with negative equity or much less equity to divide, so many just stay put and wait for the market to turn.
During the Great Depression divorce rates dropped sharply, but domestic violence rates went up. Unfortunately, the statistics for 2009 reveal similar trends.
It’s hard to make marriage work during the best economic times, but when job losses, home losses and financial upheaval hit, marriages are severely impacted. Still, couples are staying together. They can't afford the attorney fees. Child support is impossible to pay. Having two homes is unreasonable in a time when they can barely afford one home together. So they decide to stay together. As one observer put it: “it’s like sleeping with the enemy”…
Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Real Estate Connection
The Surprising Science of Motivation
The new Business Operating System is based on three things:
1. Autonomy: The urge to direct our own lives.
2. Mastery: The desire to get better and better at something that matters.
3. Purpose: The yearning to do what we do in the service of something larger than ourselves.
The 20% rule Google employs: Engineers can work on anything they want for 20% of the time. Almost half of the all the new Google products were birthed during this 20% time.
There is a mismatch between what science knows and what business does. The typical Rewards programs 20th century businesses employ (the carrots and sticks philosophy) work, but only in a surprisingly narrow band of circumstances. The secret to motivating people to produce lies in the unseen intrinsic drive to do things because they matter.
There is a great business lesson here. I hope you take the time to watch this important video. Your company’s future productivity may hinge on it.
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Prepare to Lose All Productivity – Say Hello to Redux!

Bring your Twitter and Facebook Streams to Life. This is the most fun I’ve had online ever!
Still in Beta mode, Redux makes is easy to see all the Twitter and Facebook links, videos, and pictures in your stream, without having to click on them. They simply appear to the left of the entry, so you can instantly view them. One click will also allow you to share them with your Friends or Followers.
Here is the full Mashable blog and invite to Redux. Enjoy!
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Computer savvy Administrative Assistant needed for busy Real Estate office in North Myrtle Beach
Computer savvy Administrative Assistant needed for busy Real Estate office in North Myrtle Beach. Do you strive to be the very best in everything you do? Are you friendly, bright and personable? Are you an inveterate multi-tasker organized to the Nth degree?
If this sounds like you, please send us your resume to:
ContactUs@BuyersChoiceSC.com
Visit us online at:
www.MyrtleBeachHomes.US
We have a great team of Top Producers. We provide consistent and outstanding training in Real Estate Practice and Investments, Short Sales and Foreclosures and the latest in technology. If you have always considered a career in Real Estate and are ready to embrace a rigorous schedule of hard work and education that will propel you to the next income level for a lifetime, please contact us!
Smart Commenting on Blogs - a Valuable SEO Tool
Smart Commenting on blogs can be a valuable tool providing:
1. High PR back links
2. New Readers – Subscribers
3. Productive Niche Research
4. Networking – Partnerships
This video is the best tutorial I found on the subject. Here are the links to the sites provided on the video:
Comment Kahuna
Google Reader
Google alerts
Please give me some feedback on this and let me know if you’d like some more such tutorials!
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Twitter Top 100 - This is The Best Twitter List Ever!!!

I know it's not Christmas yet, but I just couldn't help it: I wanted to make your day. If you are a Twitter addict like myself, you will cherish this list. Who loves you baby?
1 TweetDeck
2 FriendFeed
3 TwitterFeed
4 Ping.fm
5 Twhirl
6 Twellow
7 Tweetie
8 Twitturly
9 Twitterholic
10 #hashtags
11 Seesmic Desktop
12 Twitterrific
13 BrightKite
14 Twitscoop
15 TwitterFox
16 TwitterCounter
17 TwitterBerry
18 HootSuite
19 TwitterFon
20 Tweet Scan
21 Mobypicture
22 TweetLater
23 WeFollow
24 TweetStats
25 Monitter
26 Twitpic
27 FriendOrFollow
28 Twitter Grader
29 TweetValue
30 HelloTxt
31 Twistory
32 Qwitter
33 TweetBeep
34 SocialToo
35 TweetGrid
36 Tweetburner
37 Twittelator
38 TwitterBar
39 TweetMeme
40 LoudTwitter
41 Just Tweet It
42 Retweetist
43 TwitThat
44 Mr. Tweet
45 DestroyTwitter
46 Tiny Twitter
47 PeopleBrowsr
48 Twibble
49 Splitweet
50 ÜberTwitter
51 WhosTalkin
52 TwitterHawk
53 GroupTweet
54 Twibs
55 Shareaholic
56 Foamee
57 TwitterFriends
58 TweepSearch
59 Twubble
60 TwitterLocal
61 CoTweet
62 Snitter
63 Slandr
64 TwitterMap
65 iTweet 2
66 Twitbin
67 Secrettweet
68 Straw Poll
69 Spaz
70 TwittEarth
71 Pocketwit
72 Twemes
73 Twitxr
74 Twitoria
75 Twitter for iPhone
76 twtQpon
77 Twilert
78 Your Twitter Karma
79 Who Should I Follow?
80 FoodFeed
81 TweeTube
82 Twinfluence
83 SnapTweet
84 Twtcard
85 TwitterPatterns
86 Follow Cost
87 Xpenser
88 Tweetake
89 TwitterMass
90 Twitpay
91 Twittertise
92 Twinkle
93 TrackThis
94 Retweetrank
95 Twitter Digest
96 Twitteroo
97 Twitter Tools
98 EasyTweets
99 Hahlo
100 Tweetr
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